We should keep on encouraging each other to be thoughtful and to do helpful things. Some people have gotten out of the habit of meeting for worship, but we must not do that. We should keep on encouraging each other, especially since you know that the day of the Lord's coming is getting closer. Hebrews 10:24-25 (CEV)
Let me share a story that a friend sent me.
Evidently some believers had stopped attending the worship services of the church, perhaps because they feared persecution (Heb. 12:4). Difficulties no matter how hard they might seem should never be an excuse for missing church services. Rather, as difficulties arise, we should make an even greater effort to be faithful in attendance. A preacher went to visit a Christian whose attendance had slacked off. When the preacher entered his home they both gathered by the fireplace to talk. The preacher asked the church member about his absence from services, and the Christian replied, “I think I can worship God alone as well as at Church.” After reflecting a moment, the preacher took the fireplace tongs, lifted a live coal from the fire, and set it down at the side of the grate. As they watched, its color turned to gray and the heat slowly died. The church member got the point. After a pause, he said, “I’ll be at the services Sunday.”
I would say people struggle to stay in church. Instead of encouraging one another, we pull each other down. People wonder why churches close their doors or stop growing. A lot has to do with the responsibility on our part. Why can't we just say an encouraging word, give a hug, or pray for one another? When I invite people to church, I hear so many excuses. Why can't people just be real for a change? We are God's hands and feet. Are you willing to suffer some rejection for the work of Christ?
My friends, we beg you to warn anyone who isn't living right. Encourage anyone who feels left out, help all who are weak, and be patient with everyone. Don't be hateful to people, just because they are hateful to you. Rather, be good to each other and to everyone else. Always be joyful and never stop praying. Whatever happens, keep thanking God because of Jesus Christ. This is what God wants you to do. 1 Thessalonians 5:14-18 (CEV)